There was a famine in the land, as bad as the famine during the time of Abraham. And Isaac went down to Abimelech, king of the Philistines, in Gerar. God appeared to him and said, "Don't go down to Egypt; stay where I tell you. Stay here in this land and I'll be with you and bless you. I'm giving you and your children all these lands, fulfilling the oath that I swore to your father Abraham. I'll make your descendants as many as the stars in the sky and give them all these lands. All the nations of the Earth will get a blessing for themselves through your descendants. And why? Because Abraham obeyed my summons and kept my charge-my commands, my guidelines, my teachings." So Isaac stayed put in Gerar. The men of the place questioned him about his wife. He said, "She's my sister." He was afraid to say "She's my wife." He was thinking, "These men might kill me to get Rebekah, she's so beautiful." One day, after they had been there quite a long time, Abimelech, king of the Philistines, looked out his window and saw Isaac fondling his wife Rebekah. Abimelech sent for Isaac and said, "So, she's your wife. Why did you tell us 'She's my sister'?" Isaac said, "Because I thought I might get killed by someone who wanted her." Abimelech said, "But think of what you might have done to us! Given a little more time, one of the men might have slept with your wife; you would have been responsible for bringing guilt down on us." Then Abimelech gave orders to his people: "Anyone who so much as lays a hand on this man or his wife dies." (Genesis 26:1-11 MSG)
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Ok, so Abraham's lie almost cost Abimelech and his men to sin - by sleeping with another man's wife. Sometimes we lie to keep ourselves out of trouble; but have we considered the consequences of it upon ourselves and even other people?
It's better to NOT lie and face the music rather than having to tell a lie to cover up another lie or get others into trouble.
Consider that.
Wednesday, October 05, 2011
The 'cost' of Lying
Posted by NewiL at 12:17 AM |
Friday, September 30, 2011
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Your Love Never Fails
Nothing can separate
Even if I ran away
Your love never fails
I know I still make mistakes
But You have new mercies for me everyday
Your love never fails
You stay the same through the ages
Your love never changes
There maybe pain in the night but joy comes in the morning
And when the oceans rage
I don't have to be afraid
Because I know that You love me
Your love never fails
The wind is strong and the water's deep
But I'm not alone in these open seas
Cause Your love never fails
The chasm is far too wide
I never thought I'd reach the other side
But Your love never fails
You make all things work together for my good
Posted by NewiL at 7:04 PM |
Sunday, February 07, 2010
Value yourself FIRST!!
Today we had 'Princess Warrior Conference' at Mimi's house. A time when women of God come together to learn and encourage each other as we walk on this journey with Him. This time round, the topic was centred on BGR (Boy-Girl Relationship) which I thought was good since I've always gone through this in Brisbane, so it was great to hear from a different speaker.
I was just reading through the notes again when I saw this sentence quoted from Dr Les and Leslie Parrott's book, Relationships:
"If you try to find intimacy with another person before achieving a sense of intimacy on your own, all your relationships become an attempt to complete yourself."
Many times we try to find someone to complete ourselves (at least for me). We think that we will have a sense of self worth, self identity and healthy self concept once we find that someone.
But, how wrong can we be.
As the old saying goes: "be the right person FIRST rather than trying to look for the right person." We need to find and see the value in ourselves before we go around looking for our other half!!
more thoughts on the Princess Warrior Conference coming up..
Posted by NewiL at 3:17 AM |
Monday, January 11, 2010
Struggles are NECESSARY
Posted by NewiL at 1:55 PM |
Saturday, January 09, 2010
Serving God from Your Heart
Taken from Rick Warren's devotion:
One characteristic of serving God from your heart is effectiveness: whenever you do what God wired you to love to do, you get good at it. Passion drives perfection. If you don't care about a task, it is unlikely that you'll excel at it.
On the other hand, the highest achievers in any field are those who do it because of passion, not duty or profit.
We've all heard people say, "I took a job I hate in order to make a lot of money, so someday I can quit and do what I love to do." That's a big mistake. Don't waste your life in a job that doesn't express your heart.
Remember, the greatest things in life are not things. Meaning is far more important than money. The richest man in the world once said, "A simple life in the fear-of-God is better than a rich life with a ton of headaches" (Proverbs 15:16, Msg).
Don't settle for achieving "the good life," because the good life is not good enough. Ultimately, it doesn't satisfy. You can have a lot to live on, and still have nothing to live for. Aim instead for "the better life" -- serving God in a way that expresses your heart.
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As some of us are entering the workforce for the first time or looking for another job the the xth time, let's take up the job not because you want to earn big bucks and then move on to something you're really passionate about. Instead, like what Rick Warren said, "Remember, the greatest things in life are not things. Meaning is far more important than money."
DON'T settle for the 'good life'; instead aim for 'the better life' - serving God in a way that expresses your heart.
Posted by NewiL at 1:18 PM |
We Love Because God Loves Us
"Once we're secure inside God's unconditional love, we'll start cutting people a lot of slack. We won't be as angry as we've been. We'll be more patient. We'll be more forgiving. We'll be more merciful. We'll let others have grace." - Rick Warren's devotion
Let's learn to love because God loves us, not for any other reasons!
Posted by NewiL at 1:11 PM |
Friday, January 08, 2010
'Go' or 'Let's Go'
I realised something today (why did it take me so long?!!), I blog most when my mind is actively engaged (i.e. reading a book/researching on an issue etc). I am currently reading this book by John C Maxwell, "Developing the Leader within You" and only in the first few pages of Chapter 1, and it has got me thinking...
"A person may be 'in control' because he has been appointed to a position. In that position, he may have authority. But real leadership is more than having authority; it is more than having the technical training and following the proper procedures. REAL LEADERSHIP is being the person others will gladly and confidently follow."
By deciding where to go for dinner, we are leading. By saying 'No' to injustice, you are leading. Somehow or rather, like it or not, we are leaders in our own ways (though we sometimes do not see it).
As for me, I serve as a leader in church (with a certain amount of authority given to me) and the above statement in John's book has certainly got me thinking:
- will people still follow me if I do not have the authority given to me, in other words, will people still gladly follow me if I no longer have any authority given to me?
- The boss depends on authority; the leader on goodwill;
- The boss drives his workers; the leader coaches them;
- The boss says 'I', the leader says 'We';
- The boss says 'Go', the leader says 'Let's go'
Posted by NewiL at 6:22 PM |
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Waiting to be READY
And so we continue waiting, just like how Abraham and Sarai waited for a child that God has promised.
"God also said to Abraham, 'As for Sarai your wife, you are no longer to call her Sarai; her name will be Sarah. I will bless her and will surely give you a son by her. I will bless her so that she will be the mother of nations; kings of peoples will come from her.'" (Genesis 17:15–16 NIV).
They waited and waited, to the point of frustration.
I am pretty sure that you have been in such a situation, when you believed you have heard from God and started praying faithfully for it. However, as time goes by, you start to get impatient and frustrated; doubts start creeping in - whether you have heard wrongly, or, if God actually will grant your prayer eventually.
Sarah and Abraham knocked on that door for another fourteen years! (Genesis 16:16; Genesis 21:5).
Finally, the breakthrough came because they were totally and wholly dependent upon God to fulfill his promise.
Not dependent because they'd obediently submitted everything to God, but totally dependent because they'd exhausted every other possibility.
And that's often why God delays. He's waiting on us to be ready for him.
Are you ready?
Posted by NewiL at 3:12 AM |
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Waiting is HARD..
Yesterday, the Rick Warren devotion sent to my email caught my eye - Waiting is the HARDEST part.
I must say I FULLY AGREE with this (same sentiments anyone?) because all my life I realised that waiting is a process that I experience till now and definitely forever..and..it is HARD!
And many times, we tend to try taking things in our own hands, hoping that it will reduce the waiting time and discomfort of waiting.
Sarai from the Bible is one good example. As you read, Sarai actually took it upon herself to solve God's problem.
Let's take a pause here.
How many times have we tried to take things from the hands of our Creator(i.e. Jesus Christ) and simply forget that we are nothing without the Creator. To put it simply, how can we, the masterpiece of the Creator be able to fathom the thoughts and ways of our Creator??!
"As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." Isa 55: 8-10
Jon Walker (author of 'Growing with Purpose,' and editor of the Purpose Driven Life On-line Devotionals) commented:
"When faced with a delayed answer, do you break with God? What does manipulating an answer to our prayers say about our belief in God's character?"
I believe it speaks alot.
Consider it.
Posted by NewiL at 1:19 AM |
Waiting...
Waiting is part and parcel of life, waiting:
for Mum/Dad to bring you to the zoo when you were young; for the day you get to have your own schoolbag; the day you graduate from primary school and step into your teenage years; for the first pager (in my times!); to be called up on stage to receive your graduation certificate; your first interview; for the call from the employer that you've been anticipating; and it goes on and on...waiting for something to happen..
Regardless of our age, the process of waiting is here to stay in our lives.
So, since the process of waiting is here to stay,
Posted by NewiL at 1:08 AM |
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Love E.V.E.R.Y.O.N.E
Even if it's...
- the neighbour who's constantly blasting his/her music;
- a rude salesperson ;
- the uncooperative groupmate in your project group;
- the unfriendly colleague who sits next to you in the office;
- the person who didn't thank you for holding the door etc
""You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy. But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you...If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?" - Mt 5: 43-44, 46-48
God reminded me of this verse today. Recently, I have been finding it hard to love someone whom I come into occasional contact with. I don't really know this person very well, but he is close to the family enough for me to have to be in contact with him sometimes. On top of that, I don't find him well-mannered or at least giving me the due respect I deserve.
Most of the times when I see him, a rush of negative emotions just consume me and they translate into actions. Many times, I get frustrated with myself for being two-faced (or double standard) for being able to treat love everyone but not this person.
It's easy to love those who love us and treat us the same way we do to them. But then we are no different from the others (i.e. people who do not have Christ in them)
It's NOT easy (as I've experienced) to love someone when they DO NOT treat us the same way we do to them.
But, that's what MAKES THE DIFFERENCE.
We are called to be salt and light to the world (Mt 5: 13-16) not salt and light that fades into the world.
"Lord, please teach me to have a heart for people just like you - to not judge and respond to them based on their actions. Rather, teach me to love them like you do - to look beyond their flaws and love them for who they are."
Posted by NewiL at 9:45 PM |